Alistair Sandilands

Gold Coast




Abandonment, Self Acceptance, Anxiety, Athletes, Sports, Burnout, Fatigue, Workaholism, Work Addiction, Boundaries Codependency, Core Negative Imprint, Connection, Isolation, Intimacy, Denial, Disassosiation, Dissapointment, Divine Masculine, Gaslighting, Endurism, Neglect Feeling and Expressing Emotions, Fear, Family Crisis, Safety, Connecting With Your Heart, Parts Work, Perfectionism, Physical Abuse, Powerlessness, Purpose, Anger, Relationships, Sexual Trauma, Self Love, Confidence, Separation, Sensitivity, Shame

Price Per Session:

$150 - sessions can last up to 1hr 30

Booking Information

To enquire about availability, please email me at

My partner Sarah Ruru is also a certified practitioner of The Completion Process and works with mothers. Together we offer sessions for parents of all variations.

About Me:

Originally from England, I moved to Australia in 2002 and am the father of two teenage daughters and stepfather to my partner's two daughters as well.

I work primarily with men, especially fathers, relating in part through my own experience of the emotional pain and trauma that we experience throughout life as we look so hard to understand the masculine role in today's world.

I understand the reluctance to feel emotion for fear of what that might make us in the eyes of the world and ourselves. I understand the resistance to acknowledging a need to have someone help us. I know what it is to feel inadequate as a father, and the shame that so many of us have carried.

My interest in helping people with their emotional health began in 2014 with an inner knowing that to do so was a natural part of who I am - whether it is in the corporate environment in which I have worked for over 30 years or in the healing benefits of being a kahuna massage bodyworker.

However it was with The Completion Process that I really experienced and understood how deep we must go iwithin to heal rather than look outside for solutions, to run towards our emotions rather than away from them (as so many men and fathers feel there is need to do in order to be respected and loved as a male and a parent). And how in turning towards and facing those parts of us that are in our shadow the relationship with our Self heals and this forms the bedrock from which the relationship with our partner and our children, indeed with all our relationships, can flourish. And we can stand strong in who we truly are.


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